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Whatcom County OC

sudden valley gunner

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Thanks for your kind words and thoughts folks been a rough few weeks.

My cousin who I grew up with and were very close committed suicide. He had called me that night (early morning) and I didn't pick up the phone, being wiped out and tired, figuring he had a little to drink and I'd let him sleep it off and I'd call him in the morning. Something I will regret until the day I am no longer breathing. ( he wasn't drinking, and statistically most folks who take their own lives are not under the influence of drugs or alcohol)

He was a huge supporter of OC, and other fundamental rights. When the BPD had illegally arrested me for trying to file a complaint, he was in the parking lot witnessing what happened, and appalled by how as he stated it 'the department closed rank, to protect their own.' He read these boards although didn't participate, there are a few other combat veterans that do this too, for reasons I simply can not understand so don't try too. So many times I would voice his opinions for him, but we were so alike it never strayed far from my own thoughts or line of thinking. Not long ago when I was discouraged and thinking of giving up, he told me a story about training in boot camp and then the actual application in combat. His saying had become a mantra, for us, I'll share that at another time.

He served in Iraq as a combat veteran. He was a loving father and husband (although he had divorced his wife to protect her). He was a true loyal friend and brother, he would defend you to the death. He was an enrolled member of the Lummi tribe of Indians and a graduate of North West Indian College. Working slowly for a degree in journalism at Western Washington University because he was so sick of how things are twisted and reported in media today especially when it was concerning, his fellow soldiers in Iraq.

I have just read but not having sourced it that we loose more veterans in who have served in this last conflict to suicide than we do in battle. My cousin was in a tower that was blown up with an RPG and left for dead, he had severe head injuries he survived this and fought to come home to his family. He spent months re learning to walk, had a constant supply of pills and therapy, suffered from the ability to interact socially ( something we have in common and might just be our upbringing). He battled his demons that plagued him constantly sad to say those demons won this round.

I urge all veterans (and any others suffering from similar difficulties) please don't isolate yourselves, please seek the help of other veterans, don't keep putting it off !!!! Remember that your friends and family love you and need you, and that sometimes we just get caught up in our lives and our minor stresses and that this in no way means you are forgotten or not cared for. I am going to selfishly plead to think about the pain, anguish and guilt others will feel when you are no longer around.
 

sudden valley gunner

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I have OC'd to Dr. Sealy's office for dental work and have had no issues. But to be fair he saw me at Starbucks first OC'ing and when I went to his office his workers told me how he saw me there. So there was forewarning. I really like his setup and how he runs his place.

At a lumber yard a few weeks ago....

"Whoa he's got a gun" one worker
"He's always carrying a gun" another worker
"Does this mean I can't F*&k with you" first worker to me said jokingly
"Nah you can F*&k with me just don't try to harm me" said me...everybody laughing

I too have ran into White Russian at his place of employment, reminds me I need to get that part number.
 

Trigger Dr

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Condolences Rob.
I liken a situation such as this, to a ship departing and crossing the horizon. We stand on the shore and say "There it goes", while someone else sets on the other side of the hoirzon saying "Here it comes" You and your cousin are on opposite sides of the horizon and he is waiting for you to appear. God Bless you and yours.
 

sudden valley gunner

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Condolences Rob.
I liken a situation such as this, to a ship departing and crossing the horizon. We stand on the shore and say "There it goes", while someone else sets on the other side of the hoirzon saying "Here it comes" You and your cousin are on opposite sides of the horizon and he is waiting for you to appear. God Bless you and yours.

Thank you. I like your analogy and appreciate it.
 

MSG Laigaie

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Glad to see you back Robert. I was hoping to see you At Starbucks this morning.

B'ham has been quiet. I made a document request to the city for its OC training bullitens. I received a bogus page of info garnered from the web. I replied and made my request more clear. I may have to make another personal appearance at the PD.
 

Vitaeus

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Sorry for the loss SVG, the VA has a hotline for any veteran's needing someone to talk to.

Dial 1-800-273-8255, press 1

Never had to use it, myself, but they should be more able to deal with veteran's issues than a random volunteer at another hotline.

Sometimes the check a veteran writes at enlistment gets cashed after they return home.
 

sudden valley gunner

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Glad to see you back Robert. I was hoping to see you At Starbucks this morning.

B'ham has been quiet. I made a document request to the city for its OC training bullitens. I received a bogus page of info garnered from the web. I replied and made my request more clear. I may have to make another personal appearance at the PD.

You went yesterday? I thought about it but thought being the first noone else would be there. Looks like Metal might be coming up today, if not I'm open to grab a cup of joe.
 

sudden valley gunner

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Sorry for the loss SVG, the VA has a hotline for any veteran's needing someone to talk to.

Dial 1-800-273-8255, press 1

Never had to use it, myself, but they should be more able to deal with veteran's issues than a random volunteer at another hotline.

Sometimes the check a veteran writes at enlistment gets cashed after they return home.

Thank you.
Hopefully others will listen to your advice.
 

MSG Laigaie

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handicap parking

Out and about today. I met with Sudden Valley Gunner and his son for coffee at Starbucks. Good talk.
I was taking a photo in the Haggens parking lot when I was approached by an unarmed civilian. I thought he was about to make a weapon comment when he said, "Hey, I saw your license plate, Thanks for your service." It's not always about guns. I hope I looked presentable, the pistol was obvious. It was a bit nice to see someone accept the sight of an armed citizen.

Oh yes the pic. Someone got upset because this bozo parked in a handicapped slot. Two of his tires on his SUV were flat. Passenger side.
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BigDave

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Now that is a Kodak Moment! I see moments leading up to this a few times a week as for last night when I pulled in I saw a young man with his son pull into a handicap spot jumped out and ran into Fred Meyers, not a fast walk but ran I wish I had a video camera ready to go so I could try and drop it off at the PD and support sending this idiot a ticket.
 

BigDeeeeeeee

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Not just the Handicap Parking slot but the "loading zone" between them so a van could use their wheelchair lift. I call this Justice of the finest kind.

A big fat ticket would have been justice. This is just plain lowlife vandalism. Occasionaly someone with a permit forgets to hang it on the mirror.
 

Golden-Arm

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A big fat ticket would have been justice. This is just plain lowlife vandalism. Occasionaly someone with a permit forgets to hang it on the mirror.


did he also forget to park in the actual spot, and not in the unloading area? people do this, because they feel it's not the actual handicap spot, not because they forgot to hang a permit. idiot got what was deserved. :banana:
 

BigDeeeeeeee

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did he also forget to park in the actual spot, and not in the unloading area? people do this, because they feel it's not the actual handicap spot, not because they forgot to hang a permit. idiot got what was deserved. :banana:
I'm not saying he did forget, only that it's possible. May be a sack of **** I don't know, but I think it's still a ways down the lowlife ladder to get to vandals.

Innocent until proven guilty. Naw scratch that, guilty because I think so. Probably shoulda broke the dirty parking spot poachers legs too, that'd teach him.

Got what he deserved, absurd.
 

amlevin

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There are those among the handicapped, who are entitled to those spots and are often in wheel chairs, that have inflicted this kind of street justice on the inconsiderate that park in those spots. The more generous ones merely remove the valve cap and core while the ones that are really pissed put an ice pick or knife through the sidewall.

As for the "Handicap Permits", they're abused right and left. I had a part time retirement job as a delivery driver. Three of my "fellow drivers" had handicap permits on their personal vehicles. A requirement of the job was to be able to walk distances when delivering product to customers. They did this all day long without problem. All laughed at how their permits got them free parking on the street anytime they went out for dinner in Seattle. BTW, they weren't just "mirror hangar" permits but permanent plates.
 
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