Will only respond to the "second" point -
I have not spoken or written his name since the election and will not. Simply leaving a letter out of his name is IMO, not disrespectful. If I were caused to meet him face to face, I would refer to him as Mr. President.
I would accept that, but it is obvious, if you look at the spelling, that you are not simply leaving the letter 'b' out of his name. You have spelled the name "O_mama's" which by your explanation would spell 'Obmama's'. The least you could do is not state that you are doing one thing when it is obvious you are doing another. I am wondering what you are attempting to imply, or mean by your choice of lettering of the name you use in place of Obama's actual last name. Could you explain?
It appears that not only with you, but with a number of people that I have seen spell Obama's name a number of different ways, other than how his name is spelled, is that, there seems to be an attempt on delegitimizing either his position, or who he in fact is, which is a man with the last name "Obama."
I am genuinely curious if you do this type of 'thing', or have done this type of name alteration with other Presidents that you did not like, or did not support, and if so, how did you spell them, and why? Also, why his name is so detestable that you would not even verbalize it - doesn't that sound odd to you, that a person would go to such lengths?
There are a number of people on here that likely view my calling you out on this as just another 'leftist' rant, so be it. I am simply trying to reach down into, and understand why a person would go out of their way to do some thing like that. Particularly people who claim to respect the office, while at the same time attempt to undermine it by disrespecting the President who currently occupies the office - who, keep in mind, was voted in by a majority of Americans.
I really hope that you offer a honest, open response, unlike some of the detractors on here who have the nasty habit of placing implications, and hyberbole in their responses, and then when called out, deny, deny, deny, like the intellectual cowards that they are. And I say "intellectual cowards" because people know precicely what they are implying, what they are typing, and to deny it, and act as if their implication is without some underlying 'thing' is cowardice as far as I am concerned.