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A friend in need

Big Gay Al

Michigan Moderator
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Im fine thanks, if ya feel like asking the guy up there for something ask for him to put a Maserati Quattroporte Sport GT:S in my driveway.
Actually, ask him to put it in MY driveway, I could get a bundle for it, and maybe not even have to work, ever again. ;)
 

Venator

Anti-Saldana Freedom Fighter
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Lansing area, Michigan, USA
Highly unlikely, I have always maintained enough extra savings to get me through at least six months of the necessities,(rent,gas,food,not cpl class) and even during that I have savings in safe deposit boxes and in the form of short term CD's that I can utilize if needed. I also have a wide skill set so if I do end up unemployed I have a few other traits that I know I can get into working jobs within one month.

So yes one goal of my life currently is to up that from a 6 month to a year and a half plan.

If you actually come with a plan to stay safe financially you will do just fine, but if you quite your job or get fired with no savings then that is exactly where you will end up, in the gutter. It does not help to make irresponsible choices with your money such as paying for part of a cpl class when you can not afford the whole thing, it seems that there are simply better options to use that money one.
Young and healthy, but we are all just TAB (temporarily able bodied). An accident or medical condition can last longer than your 6 months savings...

Arrogance is a belief based on an untruth.
 

Beerme

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Mar 25, 2010
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Waterford, Michigan, USA
Young and healthy, but we are all just TAB (temporarily able bodied). An accident or medical condition can last longer than your 6 months savings...

Arrogance is a belief based on an untruth.

I have been out of work for a prolonged period of time and it has proved to work fine before.
It is not arrogance it is intelligence and being financially prepared and responsible.
 

NHCGRPR45

Regular Member
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Chesterfield Township, MI
Beerme come on Bro.. No need to piss all over this guys thread man.If you personally don`t want to help him out for whatever reason,thats your choice. But just leave it at that.

No need to keep kicking him while he`s down. Please stop,thanks

Wally im sorry to hear about your Mom, I myself had to take care of my father a couple of years ago when he had cancer. It was a very stressfull time for the whole family.
I hope you stick around here on the forums,you have come a long ways in the last year.
Take care,Dennis

agreed. point made

sorry about your mom wally,

Beerme, I am sorry you feel this way. I was the same way when there was another CPL fund going on just a year ago, And I realize I was acting like a child. I am only 21, So I am very limited on previous work experience. It took a very dramatic life changing event to finally get me to mature, And make me a better man because of it.

I do appreciate everyone that would help out if they were able to, And I am thankful that there are people to stand behind me emotionally as well.

PM me wally, i'll see what i can do.

Im fine thanks, if ya feel like asking the guy up there for something ask for him to put a Maserati Quattroporte Sport GT:S in my driveway.

i am a ferrari man myself, or maybe a nice aston martin,,, yea,, i can see myself with an aston martin black tux, walther P99 yea (which i have!), martinni shaken NOT sturred.

Aaah the luxury of youth.


youth is wasted on the young,,,,,,
 

cabman1

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Jackson , Michigan, USA
I have been out of work for a prolonged period of time and it has proved to work fine before.
It is not arrogance it is intelligence and being financially prepared and responsible.

Not to piss on your parade Because I have nothing against you but dont you still live at home with your parental unit???
If so how do you really know what life is like in the real world?????
 

Bailenforcer

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Stay with me on this okay. I am 54 years old way too young to have what happened to me happen. I am filing for disability and resisted since I was in the Hospital ICU and nearly died from a massive blood infection no one was able to identify in September and October 2006. It was also said I may have been poisoned over a period of time yet toxicology reports didn't identify anything. But saying all that I never saw it coming, I figured since I loved to work I would be working either till I died or at least 70, but life threw a monstrous curve ball at me.

I have stored somewhere six years worth of food at least four years is those nitrogen packed storage foods. I also had this odd habit of never spending change I got back from a dollar and carried a large coffee can in my work truck where the change went and each week I almost filled it. I recently found out I had saved well over seven thousand dollars in change over the years. My bank has a change counter and every time I brought the change in They gave me paper money for it and this is why I know how much I cashed in so far. I bought a nice Ham/Amateur radio station with a little of it [Alinco DX-70-TH, Icom 75, power supply antenna tuner and more] So if you know radio you know that was a huge chunk of money.

Now the clincher. I use propane for heat and I pre-bought so much back when it was 79 cents a gallon [1998] that I still had credit in 2008 to fill my 500 gallon tank. I now use Wood pellets and a pellet stove.

I wont even tell you how much money I had invested but I will say it paid off a 57,000 dollar hospital bill and related doctors costs.

Now I had all my bills aid up from six months to a year in advance back then with an escrow account that I calculated to make sure that if I was injured and had time off I would survive.

I have no lived with my parents since age 16 nor have they gave me a penny since age 14 so I was on my own and they will tell you the fact that I had a business that made serious money at age 14 A Detroit news route of 135 customers, and a Free press rout of just over 250 I won awards from both because how fast I built them and I through moms name joined Amway and Shaklee and sold to my paper route customers. So I was never lazy and if anything I was a little hyper active and found a way to use it to make money.

Today I am forced to file disability after almost 5 years fighting with my Doctors who all told me to file. Life is getting tough and no matter how prepared one is life will curb stomp you sometimes. Now I am left with the possibility of selling off some of my guns to keep going if social security that I paid for 36 years keeps laying games with me.

No matter how great you think you prepared yourself for these things life can drop kick you where it hurts most. So I wouldn't be so hasty to criticize others and brag about how worldly you are. We don't know his life or how prepared he was or was trained to be. preparedness is learned and not a natural function of modern man. My mother taught me to be ready for anything, as she lived through Nazi Germany and in 1955 came here with my Father a soldier stationed in Germany. She lived through the most bombed city in WWII rarely talked about on all those TV shows on larger cities like Dresden. She lived in Koblenz Germany where the allies were convinced Hitler had a deep buried super secret munitions plant and that city was bombed for weeks on end. I read many books on that subject and what my mother told me was 100% correct.

She was almost fanatical about being prepared for anything life throws at you and I was....

But not everyone had a mother like mine who made sure by age ten I could cook, sew, do laundry and everything any self sufficient adult could do. She always said if she suddenly died she wanted to make sure I could go on without her. And I know she saw many of her family slaughtered and friends killed by the bombings and the allies who shot at children for fun. yes it did happen but that is what war is about despite what we are told to think.

So in retrospect we have no idea how prepared for lifes bad times he was and is, and if anyone even taught him. We do not come out of the womb as survivalists. So I would slow down the judgment and pray he learns from all he is going through, because it going to get far worse than anyone here imagines in the next two to six years. And a year and a half plan wont do much.

Forgive any typos for some reason the letter [p] on my keyboard is lazy and doesn't always work.



Highly unlikely, I have always maintained enough extra savings to get me through at least six months of the necessities,(rent,gas,food,not cpl class) and even during that I have savings in safe deposit boxes and in the form of short term CD's that I can utilize if needed. I also have a wide skill set so if I do end up unemployed I have a few other traits that I know I can get into working jobs within one month.

So yes one goal of my life currently is to up that from a 6 month to a year and a half plan.

If you actually come with a plan to stay safe financially you will do just fine, but if you quite your job or get fired with no savings then that is exactly where you will end up, in the gutter. It does not help to make irresponsible choices with your money such as paying for part of a cpl class when you can not afford the whole thing, it seems that there are simply better options to use that money one.
 
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Bailenforcer

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So true so true...



Young and healthy, but we are all just TAB (temporarily able bodied). An accident or medical condition can last longer than your 6 months savings...

Arrogance is a belief based on an untruth.
 

MichiganOCer

Regular Member
Joined
Sep 10, 2010
Messages
10
Location
nonyabusiness Michigan
Ironic

People are losing there homes, places to live. No food, heat is off, cant find work, Living the Obama Dream and your seriously asking for donation's for some guy to get his CPL? Something seriously wrong with this. I could see asking for help with any of the above but a CPL? If this is truly worthy of a donation, in your eyes. You should be the one to donate...Ridiculous post!
 

MichiganOCer

Regular Member
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nonyabusiness Michigan
I don`t want everyone to know all of the details of what is going on, But I am currently dealing with a permanent Family medical condition. I have to take full responsibility of the said person, Involving pushing said person in a wheel chair in public, And I feel a little uncomfortable at time in places, For the both of us, And most of the places we go have a liquor license, So I am unable to OC. I was required to make a decision on weather to keep my job, Or take care of the family member, And I made the decision that Family is more important then any job. I realize that I might not be the person that should be asking for help, And I realize I have made mistakes, And still have many more to make I am still young, But I am truly sorry for the foolishness I have caused in the past. I have a whole new outtake on life right now, And I feel I will be a better man because of it.

Honestly if you felt the need to hold a cpl you would find a way! This attempt to gain your CPL through a donation is merely a lack luster attempt to not do what is needed to acheive a goal you state you need. The fact of the matter is there are much cheaper CPL classes then listed within this forum or the open carry community. Some as low as $80. Get a paper route, Walk the roadways, collect bottles. I could honestly bet at this point in time how many days after the infitial post you have not one red cent you would be willing to donate to your own cause. IMPO get a life, make a life and pay your own way! Go to FIA and tell them you need money for a CPL and food stamps!
 
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