Rusty Young Man
Regular Member
OK, here goes: The GF and I have been tossing around ideas about what our wedding could be like, or rather what we would like it to be like. She knows how important the RKBA is to me as well as OC being an integral part of who I was when we met and who I am today. She actually suggested the carry aspect...
So the question is: Should we have Open Carry at our wedding? What would you choose in our position?
I'm asking the question to the OCDO sages because I wanted the opinion of folks who understand* that CC isn't the end-all for carry, nor am I trying to ambush a potential BG (I'd much rather deter an encounter altogether). Likewise, the members of OCDO may as well be paralegals with their knowledge and discussion on the actual laws which may apply; have I ever mentioned that I like the "cite to authority" rule here?
Details:
GF and I would prefer to have the ceremony and reception at either a hotel or other private venue. With how beautiful Tucson is, we'd like to showcase that a bit (it's where we met and we have fallen in love with it). No booze during ceremony, which would likely be outside. Booze would be involved for the reception, which would be inside; wife's family does the social drinking thing, some of our friends do too. This is where it gets tricky.
The dilemma:
If we went with OC, then we'd have to go with a private venue and pay for a bar (because then the venue wouldn't be the one with the liquor license and thus one should be able to OC, if I understand the statutes correctly).
If we went CC then we may as well go with the hotel venue and no OC would be permitted due to the place having a liquor license and as such being bound by the ARS Title 4 statutes.
Regardless of the final choice carry will be encouraged for all guests, and this is a decision we both agreed on and support. Everyone on her side of the family knows I OC (plenty have seen it firsthand and word has spread to the extended family) and knows she carries as well. Ditto on my side of the family.
*Some other threads I found on the subject devolved into "OC gives away the element of surprise" debates:
Courteous, but short-lived thread
http://forum.opencarry.org/forums/showthread.php?83169-Open-Carry-Wedding
Fairly neutral discussion
https://www.thehighroad.org/index.php?threads/carrying-during-a-wedding.544117/
Plenty of CC-only folks trolling
http://www.xdtalk.com/threads/should-i-open-carry-at-my-wedding.119435/
Reddit thread. Yeah...
https://www.reddit.com/r/guns/comments/38wegi/how_would_you_feel_about_an_opencarry_wedding/
So the question is: Should we have Open Carry at our wedding? What would you choose in our position?
I'm asking the question to the OCDO sages because I wanted the opinion of folks who understand* that CC isn't the end-all for carry, nor am I trying to ambush a potential BG (I'd much rather deter an encounter altogether). Likewise, the members of OCDO may as well be paralegals with their knowledge and discussion on the actual laws which may apply; have I ever mentioned that I like the "cite to authority" rule here?
Details:
GF and I would prefer to have the ceremony and reception at either a hotel or other private venue. With how beautiful Tucson is, we'd like to showcase that a bit (it's where we met and we have fallen in love with it). No booze during ceremony, which would likely be outside. Booze would be involved for the reception, which would be inside; wife's family does the social drinking thing, some of our friends do too. This is where it gets tricky.
The dilemma:
If we went with OC, then we'd have to go with a private venue and pay for a bar (because then the venue wouldn't be the one with the liquor license and thus one should be able to OC, if I understand the statutes correctly).
If we went CC then we may as well go with the hotel venue and no OC would be permitted due to the place having a liquor license and as such being bound by the ARS Title 4 statutes.
Regardless of the final choice carry will be encouraged for all guests, and this is a decision we both agreed on and support. Everyone on her side of the family knows I OC (plenty have seen it firsthand and word has spread to the extended family) and knows she carries as well. Ditto on my side of the family.
*Some other threads I found on the subject devolved into "OC gives away the element of surprise" debates:
Courteous, but short-lived thread
http://forum.opencarry.org/forums/showthread.php?83169-Open-Carry-Wedding
Fairly neutral discussion
https://www.thehighroad.org/index.php?threads/carrying-during-a-wedding.544117/
Plenty of CC-only folks trolling
http://www.xdtalk.com/threads/should-i-open-carry-at-my-wedding.119435/
Reddit thread. Yeah...
https://www.reddit.com/r/guns/comments/38wegi/how_would_you_feel_about_an_opencarry_wedding/
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