HI, Its mordis, checking in after a long while. Im scared to post this, becuase of what happend but i need answeres. Nearly 2 years ago i was on my way to a bankruptcy hearing at the federal building and it was a bad day. I was having a major blowout fight with the wife and did something i reget and was rightfully arrested for. We were running late, and the fight we were having was just getting worse and worse. I made the mistake of hitting her, not very hard(no im not minimising the situation, i know it was wrong). I was caught on the camera and the security detained me and i was arrested. I went to jail for 2 days not knowing if i had afamily to come home to or not. I thought my marriage was over, my wife had other ideas. She and my parents and hers pitched in and got me a lawyer that showed up to my surprise at my hearing. He got me in the pre trial diversion and i went to the therapy classes for 26 weeks and as agreed the case was dis missed.
Now please before you eviscerate me, i am glad this happend. It forced me to at least begin to deal with my issues that i have, and to handle them in a far better way. The classes were awesome and i swore to turn my life around. Our marriage is stronger now, we are in a far better place. Sure we still have the occasional squables and fights that all couples have but, nothing like the scream matches we had before. On a side note, i have lost 53lbs as part of changing my life.
So, my lawyer said that this is gone from my record. My question is regards to the arrest record. How is that treated, I threw away my permit, seeing as i couldnt have my gun during the classes. I never recieved any letters or notifications for the state police saying my permit was revoked, so to my knowldge i still have it. I just need to get a new copy of it. So My question is, say im carrying and i get pulled over, how much more trouble is this going to cuase me for the rest of my life. I dont know if i can have the arrest removed from the police computers. WIll this be a hassle i have to deal with for ever or just a lesson learned and a memory i can forget.
Now please before you eviscerate me, i am glad this happend. It forced me to at least begin to deal with my issues that i have, and to handle them in a far better way. The classes were awesome and i swore to turn my life around. Our marriage is stronger now, we are in a far better place. Sure we still have the occasional squables and fights that all couples have but, nothing like the scream matches we had before. On a side note, i have lost 53lbs as part of changing my life.
So, my lawyer said that this is gone from my record. My question is regards to the arrest record. How is that treated, I threw away my permit, seeing as i couldnt have my gun during the classes. I never recieved any letters or notifications for the state police saying my permit was revoked, so to my knowldge i still have it. I just need to get a new copy of it. So My question is, say im carrying and i get pulled over, how much more trouble is this going to cuase me for the rest of my life. I dont know if i can have the arrest removed from the police computers. WIll this be a hassle i have to deal with for ever or just a lesson learned and a memory i can forget.