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My Conflict with a Radical Nutjob

solus

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Charges were filed by me and the Magistrate. It was not an arrest based charge.

patriot quote: the Police were called, under Priority Code 2, then arrived rapidly within a minute or so. She was charged with Assault With a Deadly Weapon that day. unquote

failed to mention you 'charged' the individual with the magistrate...how did the individual get arrested?

patriot quote: ...in February when she was tried and foolishly tried denying all the charges...unquote

records show the individual was incarcerated on the 17 of Jan 16?

patriot quote: She was also charged with harassment/stalking, carrying concealed weapons, and communicating threats. unquote.

you haven't explained the harassment/stalking, or carrying concealed weapons, nor the communicating threats and as mentioned the individual was jailed for AID AND ABET DV PROTECTION ORDER VIOLATION (M) & SLEEP IN PUBLIC PLACE . so are you the intimate partner who got assaulted and pressed DV charges?

ipse
 
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stealthyeliminator

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Our tolerance level is rapidly approaching zero. Proceed with due caution.

"Our"? YOUR tolerance level may be rapidly approaching zero, but your tolerance level has a history of being rather faulty to begin with. I don't know if the story is credible, really, but I'm rapidly approaching not caring because you're being ridiculous regardless.
 
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PATRIOT88

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No. I would never even consider touching her in such a way; you have seen her mugshot. She is not attractive at all to me.

Communicating Threats- 12/28- She got upset and aggressively confronted me outside The Speedway near the Red Lobster on Highway 70. Stating ''Next Time we will do it street style.'' - My thoughts on that are honestly, uhm, NO we wont. She clearly is an alcoholic or on drugs and/or involved with gangs the way she talks.

Carrying Concealed Weapons because her knife does not qualify as an ''ordinary pocket knife'' A switchblade or spring-loaded knife is not ordinary under the statute and the judge in a private meeting with me agreed.

Harrassment/Stalking was her following me on 3 occasions in December, to areas/stores I frequent and possessing a walking stick, which is considered an improvised weapon and likely would have been used by her to assault me if she got the chance.

As far as her actual arrest, that is unrelated to me. I do not care. All I care about is that she is in jail and it gives me peace and time to focus on relocation into an area or county where she cannot get to.
 
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Grapeshot

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"Our"? YOUR tolerance level may be rapidly approaching zero, but your tolerance level has a history of being rather faulty to begin with. I don't know if the story is credible, really, but I'm rapidly approaching not caring because you're being ridiculous regardless.
My reply was obviously not directed at you. Nevertheless....Check your incoming PMs.
 

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Since this matter is resolved and it is no longer pending in court, I can discuss this openly without concern of it compromising the case.

So, anyway, it happened back on December 24th, 2015. The Shower broke the day before or so and I called Salvation Army, asking to use their shower to get cleaned up and presentable for my friends/family that were coming to visit me in NC for Christmas on the 25th. I walked to the facility in Hickory, started shaving in the bathroom and I was going to get ready to shower that day, however, I was rudely interrupted by some impatient idiot woman that kept banging at the door every 3-5 minutes. Had not shaved in awhile, so it was taking a good while. I ended up getting annoyed and upset and throwing a shirt back on and exiting the bathroom to confront her, telling her firmly that she needs to seriously learn patience and that I would not disturb her if she was tending to her period or showering and instead of getting a chance to shower, another woman comes out and starts ranting, yelling ''You don't disrespect my sister, blah blah blah.'' ...
Sounds like you started the confrontation. Consider yourself lucky that the incident was resolved in your favor.

Relocation to a less "southern" location is recommended.
 

solus

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No. I would never even consider touching her in such a way; you have seen her mugshot. She is not attractive at all to me.

Communicating Threats- 12/28- She got upset and aggressively confronted me outside The Speedway near the Red Lobster on Highway 70. Stating ''Next Time we will do it street style.'' - My thoughts on that are honestly, uhm, NO we wont. She clearly is an alcoholic or on drugs and/or involved with gangs the way she talks.

Carrying Concealed Weapons because her knife does not qualify as an ''ordinary pocket knife'' A switchblade or spring-loaded knife is not ordinary under the statute and the judge in a private meeting with me agreed.

Harrassment/Stalking was her following me on 3 occasions in December, to areas/stores I frequent and possessing a walking stick, which is considered an improvised weapon and likely would have been used by her to assault me if she got the chance.

As far as her actual arrest, that is unrelated to me. I do not care. All I care about is that she is in jail and it gives me peace and time to focus on relocation into an area or county where she cannot get to.

as i have previously indicated...something in hickory is truly rotten...

the information you supplied does not match why nor date she is incarcerated nor is there any incident reports on the hickory PD site from 23 - 29 Dec occurring at the address stated.

ipse
 

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Look. I did not start the conflict. The initial issue was someone lacking patience and being stupid, so I tried peacefully confronting that person with words. There was no ''combative'' situation. The conflict occurred when the second woman got involved, displayed an act of aggression and pulled the knife on me, forcing me to take defensive preemptive action. From the time I exited the bathroom and peacefully but firmly confronted the impatient woman, my hands were on my sides, away from my arms and defense device and I was not in a defensive stance.

The defensive stance and preemptive action did not occur until about three minutes later, where I moved away from the bathroom and closer to a wall. There was no safe avenue of escape or way to avoid the conflict after the knife was drawn. Since it was a switchblade or spring-loaded knife, I was not going to turn my back or body to try to leave SA, knowing that I would have subjected myself to higher risk of injury due to not having visual on the assailants eyes, hand or knife. I was definitely not going to give her the opportunity to land a slash or stab and commit assault with a deadly weapon with intent to kill.

I acted as I was trained. As far as the credibility goes, believe it or not. I presented all relevant information. You can either accept that or meet me at the range event this Saturday and I can show you the actual papers.
 

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"Our"? YOUR tolerance level may be rapidly approaching zero, but your tolerance level has a history of being rather faulty to begin with. I don't know if the story is credible, really, but I'm rapidly approaching not caring because you're being ridiculous regardless.

I have to agree. There is obviously a past with the OP... But may I suggest he just be booted? If him posting a thread such as this one sends so many into a decorum-less dickfest it would be better to ban him. The attacks on him are so distasteful.
 

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Oh, yes. Lets ban the peaceful security-minded open carrier that is adamant about defense, the 2nd amendment and open carry. (heavy sarcasm) Instead of having an open mind, accepting him and forming camaraderie with him.

That said, I hope we can overlook this and move on. I would like to stay a part of this, where I have the potential to associate with and meet like minded individuals and be accepted instead of being viewed as ''dangerous'' and a criminal as the antis/fear mongers seem to think.
 

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Oh, yes. Lets ban the peaceful security-minded open carrier that is adamant about defense, the 2nd amendment and open carry. (heavy sarcasm) Instead of having an open mind, accepting him and forming camaraderie with him.

That said, I hope we can overlook this and move on. I would like to stay a part of this, where I have the potential to associate with and meet like minded individuals and be accepted instead of being viewed as ''dangerous'' and a criminal as the antis/fear mongers seem to think.

peaceful ?? in state less than a year and one encounter w/Lenior PD @ WH, another with Hickory PD @ SA, and one whom carries knife, toy gun, mace-uh, er pepper spray as an open carrier ...

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Respectfully Patriot, you do manage to get into a lot of situations. Many of us have been around for over half a century have had less drama. I suggest taking a hard look at where you decide to OC, and how, plus using a little more CS, along with SA to avoid more drama.
 

PATRIOT88

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I cannot help if some fear mongering idiot calls the police. As for SA, it couldn't be helped. Didn't matter if it happened on highway 70, I still would have called police myself. I have a good relationship with Hickory PD. Should have heard some of the good things they have said about me.
 

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Yeah, I will not be going anywhere near SA anymore. There are just addicts and criminals there and no one else will take them in. Which I doubt blame them for. I wouldn't let someone who talks about being an alcoholic or smoking marijuana in my house either.
 

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I reserve the right to carry any legal arms or defense devices I see fit. I have other plans; and am currently unable to afford a handgun. I am not going to go hungry or sacrifice being able to pay rent and bills just because I felt pressured to get a 350-550 dollar handgun.
 

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I reserve the right to carry any legal arms or defense devices I see fit. I have other plans; and am currently unable to afford a handgun. I am not going to go hungry or sacrifice being able to pay rent and bills just because I felt pressured to get a 350-550 dollar handgun.

Buy what you can afford when you can afford. A SD handgun does not have to cost 350-550, there are good options from 150-250. I saw in Ed's a colt 1862 police replica for 150. I have carried C&B revolvers with complete confidence. Then there is Hi Points which do work, there is a member here who has a couple, my wife also has one. It has never failed, no matter what the haters say, they work.

ETA when you see fit, may not be appropriate, such as the Salvation Army. You were real lucky they did not press charges against you for bringing a weapon onto their property.
 
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jeep1969

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Buy what you can afford when you can afford. A SD handgun does not have to cost 350-550, there are good options from 150-250. I saw in Ed's a colt 1862 police replica for 150. I have carried C&B revolvers with complete confidence. Then there is Hi Points which do work, there is a member here who has a couple, my wife also has one. It has never failed, no matter what the haters say, they work.

ETA when you see fit, may not be appropriate, such as the Salvation Army. You were real lucky they did not press charges against you for bringing a weapon onto their property.

Agreed on the Hi Point, I have a couple as well, they go bang every time I pull the trigger. Not my every day carry but would not hesitate to carry one of them.
 

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I cannot help if some fear mongering idiot calls the police. As for SA, it couldn't be helped. Didn't matter if it happened on highway 70, I still would have called police myself. I have a good relationship with Hickory PD. Should have heard some of the good things they have said about me.

In my opinion the only good relationship with PD is no relationship with PD. I have lived in the same place for over 20 yrs and have no relationship with local PD. They may know I am familiar, it's a small town, but it ends there.
 

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In my opinion the only good relationship with PD is no relationship with PD. I have lived in the same place for over 20 yrs and have no relationship with local PD. They may know I am familiar, it's a small town, but it ends there.

I pretty much agree, though I have met some nice deputies in just normal person to person encounters. Four yesterday, and they were all affable, and not at all interested in my ID, or even make mention of my guns. Typical "Hi, how are you" interactions.

That said if one comes into contact with police on duty related interactions too much sooner or later the person will get on their radar. Once on the radar it can go downhill in the future. I do not seek them out, and do not call them for anything but a full blown catastrophe, such as an vehicle accident.
 
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