mwaterous said:
[when an officer asks "how's your day"]
what is wrong with saying "not bad, how about yours"?
Not a thing, as long as the officer doesn't try to prevent me from going about my business, walking away, continuing my grocery shopping, etc.
Problem is that most people, including officers, use such a question as an opening gambit to get you to converse further, and most of the time I really don't want to converse further with someone who looks exactly like the people who have caused me a bleepload of problems.
Giving the response of "fine", and walking away, would be polite in acknowledging their existance but assertive in that you're continuing on your way.
mwaterous said:
I'm sorry but as much as that [skunk analogy] was quotable quote material, it's only valid if you're paranoid enough to think every single police officer is out to get you. Are you that paranoid? I'm sure there's reasons to be; it's better to be prepared than to be surprised. But in reality, not every officer is out to get you.
You still haven't offered any advice as to how to tell the law-abiding officers from the abusive ones, before they cause problems, so we can know who is safe to talk with and who we should avoid.
I know there
are good cops out there. I know (personally, as friends) one current officer & a couple people who used to be officers who are generally decent people.
I've read accounts of some exceptionally good actions by officers.
But they look just like the bad ones, the ones like Harless (of Canton fame), the ones who are so insecure or better-than-you they can't abide an armed law-abiding citizen.
My friend who works for the local PD looks just like the several local officers who have done illegal things to me & cost me thousands in legal fees defending myself against false accusations.
And far too often, the bad ones aren't stopped by their co-workers when they do something bad (as in Canton). Those co-workers may not actually be bad, but they're letting it continue, which is the next worst thing & does nothing to protect (or improve) the overall reputation of LEO.