You know that you have the power to remove yourself from this forum. But based on you crying out for a Mod tells me you, yourself does not have the willpower to take control of your life. If your work offers medical services, you should not hesitate in taking advantage of it.This is what happens on an unmoderated site. A few will push the limits. Nothing will happen. They will push farther and farther. Eventually some other(s) will tire of it—and the lack of consequence for bad behavior—and push back. The lack of moderation will swing both ways.
Anarchy does not work. Some level of governance is necessary. That is kind of one of the founding ideas of our nation.