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Would have done the same. Ignore those who say that you over reacted. Everyone knows in my family and friends that THEY MUST call before coming over. It is not only good manors it keeps them from getting shot. For those who say I should be able to tell my family from a foe need to remember that when your awoken from a dead sleep it takes up to 30 mins for you to be 100% aware of your surroundings / fully awake.
With it being that hour of the morning and the manner in which he showed up I would say you did everything ok in my book. The fact that he was released from jail is another wtf moment. Now i do not know why he went and its none of my business but that is another thing that would make me uneasy as well for him just showing up.
Would have done the same. Ignore those who say that you over reacted. Everyone knows in my family and friends that THEY MUST call before coming over. It is not only good manors it keeps them from getting shot. For those who say I should be able to tell my family from a foe need to remember that when your awoken from a dead sleep it takes up to 30 mins for you to be 100% aware of your surroundings / fully awake.
With it being that hour of the morning and the manner in which he showed up I would say you did everything ok in my book. The fact that he was released from jail is another wtf moment. Now i do not know why he went and its none of my business but that is another thing that would make me uneasy as well for him just showing up.